Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Poor Little A!

Man, Ava had a hard day. And while we're being honest, mommy did too!

Today was our appointment with the allergist to look further in to what is causing A's reactions to certain foods. She's been displaying classic milk allergy/milk protein sensitivity signs since birth (though I wasn't able to figure out what exactly was going on until she was a few months old), but reacted to eggs a few weeks back when I gave her scrambled eggs for the first time, so at that point I knew I needed a couple of things. For one, having a baby who is unable to consume both dairy products (including milk, cheese, butter, whey, casein, etc.) and egg poses some issues with regards to what she CAN eat, and with her expanding appetite and desire to eat any and everything D and I are eating, I knew I'd need help to manage her dietary restraints and still ensure she was getting sufficient nutrition and calories for her needs. I also wanted to have her tested for allergens that tend to be more severe and can potentially be life-threatening, including peanuts and tree nuts, so that if God forbid she had an allergy to them and it was severe, we'd be armed with an epi-pen and the information we'd need to be prepared. I've been in situations before as a nanny where a child was over and was so severely allergic to nuts, their presence in the pantry near a snack he consumed was enough to send him to the hospital...SCARY.

Anyhow, the visit went pretty great, I must say. The doctor was amazing (seriously, if you're in the Austin area and need a rec. for an allergist, email me! I'd 100% recommend our doc for children AND adults!), and was really thorough and listened to all my concerns and questions without making me feel like an overzealous parent. Thanks, doc. They did a standard 8 panel food allergy test, which tested for the most common food allergens, including milk, eggs, wheat, soy, peanuts, corn and two controls to ensure the tests were working.
{Such a brave little girl!}

The good news? First, I am super proud of my brave little munchkin, who - despite looking extremely annoyed - didn't even cry! She did, however, continuously look at the nurse over her shoulder until she left the room, though, as if to say, "I don't trust you for a second, lady!" The best news? Ava tested for negative on everything except for corn, and he said that corn has an extremely high rate of false positives. SHE TESTED NEGATIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So what does that mean for us going forward, and for her current issues? A couple of things. First off, chances are instead of a true allergy, which would likely be lifelong, she has digestive sensitive to the proteins in milk and egg whites. Okey dokey, no problem. I avoid them while nursing, she avoids them until we revisit this per the doctor's suggested timeline, and the odds are skyrocketing that she'll outgrow them as her stomach matures. THANKYOUTHANKYOUTHANKYOU!!

The bad news?
-There is a high rate of false negatives, so we're not entirely in the clear until the blood test results that accompany the skin test comes back.
-She had to have a blood draw. OMG. She's had one once before, and let me tell you, there is NOTHING wrong with homegirl's memory. She knew immediately where we were (even though it was a different CPL location) and what was about to happen, and started to let out the most blood curdling screams. Seriously, it was heartbreaking. She was screaming and hyperventilating, trying to wrestle her way out of my arms, all the while turning beat red, sweating and, sadly, vomiting. She was hysterical, and mommy had tears falling fast down her cheeks as well. It was pitiful. Poor darling. She came home and zonked right out:


Thankfully, it's over, and as long as the bloodwork looks OK, fingers are crossed that we just got some answers and that they're great news :)

I'll keep y'all posted when we know for sure!

Monday, November 29, 2010

Y'all Ready For This?


So...there's been a bit of interest in hearing about my former life as a NYC nanny, and as such, I thought I'd appease you all, and start confessing.

Catch all the dirty gossip here :) Care to follow along?

Favorite Thing..Monday?

A few of the blogs I frequent have participated in Favorite Thing Friday, which I've always liked and found helpful and informative. I participated myself a few times back during my pregnancy, but weekly postings have given way to postings about Ava, exhaustion, working motherhood and marriage, and I've managed to continuously forget to participate. Anyhow, long story short, today - while it's actually on my mind - I will be participating in FTF either three days late, or four days early. Four days early has a nice ring to it, right?

We haven't done a ton of traveling since Ava was born, aside from a trip to California to see my side of the family (where we stayed in a baby-equipped relative's guest area), and a trip to D's parents in April, back before Ava was really eating solid foods, so this was the first opportunity we had to use Ava's portable, folding cloth high chair by My Little Seat.


The seat was something we had added to our registry thinking it would come in handy for traveling to the grandparents, and boy was that thinking right on target! Check out how amazing this thing was while we were out of town for Thanksgiving:





If you see a bit of travel in your future, I highly recommend! Plus, they're only $20!!!!

Sunday, November 28, 2010

Happy 11 Months, Baby Bear!



Well, friends, the time is near! This is the last of the monthly posts for Ava's first year! This time next month, she'll be turning 1!!! AHHHHHH! Cliche aside, these past 11 months have flown!

At 11 months, Ava is:
-Walking is an understatement. Try, slowly jogging her way around my house, leaving a path of destruction in her wake! She's so insanely busy and never stops moving. Mommy has started napping on the weekends with Ava when she can because my activity level is skyrocketing!
-Eating any and everything you'll give her, aside from anything with dairy or eggs. Some favorites include: pulled pork, mandarin oranges, broccoli, black beans and oatmeal. Yum! She has also decided she likes onion (weird, I know!) and likes to eat my sandwich with me when I leave the mayo off. Last night, she had chicken enchiladas with red sauce in corn tortillas (no cheese, obvs!). I'm so lucky to have such a good eater!
-Remains exclusively breastfed (obvs she has solids also, but no formula still). This is something I'm really proud of, and can't believe how close we are to meeting my goal of one year! I am like 120891023812038% sure I'll continue past a year, as long as she wants to!
-Taking two distinct naps a day, at least when we're home and she's able. Her afternoon nap is hard with my work schedule, so sometimes it's abbreviated as she only will sleep en route to pick up S from preschool. These days, I'll take what I can get!
-Says "mama", "dada", "baba", "hi", "oof" when you ask what sound a dog makes, "ooh ooh ah ah" when you ask what a monkey says, and has said "byebye" once.
-Waves hi, goodbye, claps her hand, rolls her hands for patticake, and tries to snap her fingers whenever she wants you - or anything - to come to her, after seeing us do it for the cat.
-We see the allergist on Tuesday afternoon (dreading it!) so hopefully we'll have some more insight into her food allergies then!!
-Weighs 21lbs, and is 30" long!

Happy 11 months, baby bear! There are no words for how much I love you and how greatly you've enriched our lives. These last 11 months have been the most amazing months of my entire life, and I cannot imagine what my world would be without you! I can't wait to celebrate your first year of life!

Friday, November 26, 2010

Black Friday = Hell on Earth.

Actually, to clarify, the Black Friday shopping experience itself wasn't so bad, until you factor in my in-laws. JAY-SUS, they're impatient. I'm talking, five minutes into our trip to Walmart, they're like, "We'll be waiting for you guys in front." Now believe me when I say I step foot into Walmart as little as humanly possible, but when you're spending the holidays in a teeny tiny town and this is all they've got, you've still got a first birthday/Christmas shopping mission to complete, ya hear? And no, it wasn't due to the crowds or anything like that. That's just HOW THEY ARE. Seriously. Everyday. I HATE going anywhere with them looking for something, because I inevitably get rushed out the door and end up forgetting at least half of what I'm there for, and browsing? Looking for ideas? These are concepts completely unbeknownst to them. HELL.

Anyhow, aside from that little gem of crappiness, we actually had a very successful shopping experience. Most of Ava's Christmas shopping is done, and since we're all grasping at straws for ideas, I thought I'd share what we've gotten for her so far.

First off, this is her mega birthday present for this year, which she'll open on her birthday despite her party not being until January 8th:


That should help some of these gifts to make a bit more sense :)

Here's the Christmas loot thus far:








I'd still like to pick up a few things, but then again, I suppose we could leave some things for the relatives to get her? :)

Happy Black Friday, y'all!

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Happy Thanksgiving!

WOOHOO! It's Thanksgiving. You know what that means. Family :)

What? You thought I was going to say turkey, pumpkin pie (or around these parts, Paula Deen's Pumpkin Gooey Butter Cake - YUM!) and the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade? Well, all of those things, too!

Growing up, I remember distinctly watching the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade with my mom, all snuggled up taking in the aromas of the day. Turkey roasting, pies baking, sweet potatoes soaking...I LOVE Thanksgiving.

This year, I particularly love Thanksgiving, since after being able to phase a bit of dairy back in, after today I'm back to completely dairy-free, as it's becoming increasingly irritating to Ava's tummy. She was handling it, now she's not. We'll see what's causing this soon, as her appointment with the allergist is on Tuesday, but in the meantime, dairy-free is back to being the way for me. Wah wah.

Anyhow, aside from all of the amazing traditions, both past and present, one of the things I love most about Thanksgiving is the opportunity everyone takes advantage of to really appreciate all the blessings in their life. This year, I have a multitude!

Things I am thankful for, in no particular order (aside from the first!):
-AVA
-David
-His parents, for making Thanksgiving such a wonderful time to spend with family, and for handling dinner prep :)
-My parents, grandparents, Aunt & Uncle, Granny Wendy, and the rest of my wonderful family. Without you, I'd be lost.
-The D's. There are no words. I consider them as much family as I do David and Ava.
-Our jobs. In this economy, having a job at all is a blessing, but one that I absolutely adore and allows me the flexibility to not have to put Ava in daycare? AMAZING.
-Our home. I love love LOVE it more and more every day, after four beautiful years in it. Here's to another year :)
-Ava
-Our pets, and their surprisingly positive reaction to Ava.
-The many wonderful women in my life who have been role models of what it is to be a mother, a wife, a working mom, a stay-at-home mom, a superhero.
-The lovely ladies who have contributed clothes and other supplies to Ava, without whom I would be in the poorhouse from keeping up with this kiddo's style ;)
-The librarian customer service rep (JK, but she was nice!)
-Ava

There are so, so many others. My church, my friends, my writing jobs, etc. I am infinitely blessed, and hope that this day, and the rest of the year, does not go by without me thanking our Heavenly Father for the abundance of riches in my life. I am one of the luckiest people I know :)

Happy Thanksgiving, all! Count your blessings!

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Oops.

The holidays are frying my brain. Seriously. Listen to this.

So today's been one of those days. Whatevs, no worries. I'm used to it. It's allllll good.

So I make it through the morning at work, despite tantrums and overtired babies and only being able to find one of every shoe in the house when I'm trying to get the girls ready to drop them off at their mom's office. Deeeeeeeep breath. Manageable. (Side note: I'm now on vacation until Monday at 2:30. WORD.)

Drop the girls off. Breathe a sigh of relief. Head to drop off the library materials (books and a Rockabye baby CD - too cute, btw) and run pre-heading-out-of-town errands so I can head home, finish laundry and pack. Successfully drop items, then hit the road towards the T-Mobile store (Oh yeah, forgot to mention that P stepped on my screen and cracked it this morning. Still usable, but bleh. Was looking at new phones last night anyways, so that seals the deal...).

Driving, driving, driving...wait, huh? Imagine my surprise when the opening chords of "Today" by The Smashing Pumpkins begin, all lullaby-style. ASLDKFJASLDFKJADFLJ. I returned the WRONG CD. (Some unsuspecting bebe is going to be rocking Taylor Swift and wondering why she's so angry with all the boys who leave her when she appears to be the problem, not the victim. I mean, Taylor, love you girl, but when ya gonna learn that being all needy and saying the L word three days into every relationship isn't the way to keep a man?!?!?)

Call the library. Endure humiliating conversation that ends in the help desk's hysterical laughter. Luckily, I'm not devoid of a sense of humor and am able to laugh along with her. In fact, by the time I settle the situation - we'll be returning the right CD post-vacation because customer service lady is a BADASS who understands just how inconvenient it would be to drive the 20 minutes back downtown with a napping infant who would no longer be napping and instead screaming (thankyouthankyouthankyou) - I'm giggling also :)

NOW...vacation*!

*If vacation now is an acronym for laundry, packing, baking and general stressing out, all while amongst the in-laws, who may or may not babysit so we can have our first date night post-baby.

**She's almost 11 months old. FIRST. DATE. NIGHT.

Happy Turkey Day friends!!!!

PS - wouldn't ANYONE out there like to buy our 2 Texas vs. A&M Thanksgiving Day tickets please GOD ASLDKJFASLDKJASLDKJF?!?!?!
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